I’ve been writing on Medium for a month, Here’s my latest post:
http://How to Write About Your Worst Nightmare

“You don’t remember the month following this death. You’re numb. Not sure how you function and return to work. One day you snap out of it, and it’s like you woke from a nightmare. Only you accept that it’s real. Some co-workers stop talking to you, not sure what to say to you. So, they just avoid you.“
It’s difficult to find the words to say to someone. “I’m sorry” Most people are afraid to say something to upset you, so they don’t say anything.
Just listen.
Be kind, and just listen to them